Marrying a Asian bride gets popular and becomes a tendency in the globalized society. For the westerners, they mostly feel like finding a lady from the following Asian countries, China, Thailand and Vietnam. Although there are various kinds of ways for people to know culture and customs of other countries today, still barriers on communication exist, which are largely caused by different cultural backgrounds. This article is mainly for those guys who want to find a Thai girlfriend or wife, which is about the first date with Thai girls.
Thai girls bring companions along on first date
Generally speaking, beautiful girls from Thailand tend to be traditional and conservative. You probably have to wait about one or two days for her answer to your dating request. While most western women would like to tell you yes or no immediately when you ask her out for a dinner. So there is difference on the react to a date between western women and Thai women. You should not use the western-style way to treat your beautiful Thai lady. Think in the Thai way.
If the girl are interested in you, she will say yes to your dinner dating request. But she will not going there alone. Usually she will be accompanied by a friend or her families and this always surprises and confuses the western men. You may think that she just wants to get a free meal for her friends and families instead of enjoying a romantic private time with you like the other dinner dates in your country. However, it is quite normal for the first date in Thailand.
The reason why she takes a friend or a family along to the date is that she wants to know their opinions on you. In Thailand, the relationships with families and friends are much closer and more important than that of the western people. She cares about how her friends and families think about her future boyfriend or husband. If he does not get the approval of friends or families, it’s probably hard to develop a relationship with her. However, don’t worry. Just be yourself and show more respect to them. They might ask you some personal questions and you need to reply them politely. One thing to be careful. If her friend or family is a female, do not talk too much with her, because people will think you are flirting with the girl. Focus on your pretty Thai girl.
Love-test through the way you spending money
Ripped off by your Asian girlfriend? Maybe it’s a strange way she’s testing you! Yes, you will be tested how much you love her in the strange way. Your generosity on money means you love her very much. Thai lady is likely to take you to an expensive restaurant for the first date and order much food more than you can eat up. Well, just let her do it, if you want a chance to develop the relationship. She just wants to know whether you are serious to the relationship or not. And how much you will cost for her is telling her how much you are longing to be with her. After the first date, she will know your real feeling to her and she will let your pick the restaurant for the later dates and make you in charge of the whole thing.
In addition, little gifts will be appreciated for the first date. These gifts should be personal and something they truly need in daily life. Shoes and handbags are their favourites. And romantic flowers like red rose and chocolates are also nice for a date gift.
With these tips, it is easier for you to understand your Asian girl and create a romantic Thai date smoothly and joyfully!